Are YOU the Problem with Youth Sports?
It is easy to point the finger at those who start fights and verbally abuse officials. But we probably are all contributing to the problems ....
Dear friend concerned about the youth sports environment:
We are growing accustomed to seeing parents display grotesque behavior at youth sports. Fights are breaking out far too often. Parents feel they have the right to verbally abuse officials.
Here is the problem. Many of you reading this know only see such horrid images and videos and think it is only these people that are the problem. What about you? Did you ever consider the effect of:
coaching your own kids from the stands
screaming at game officials for a bad call
antagonizing the opposing team’s fans
acting passive aggressively towards coaches who aren’t playing your kid the way you think they should
living vicariously through own kids’ athletic performance
rolling your eyes at the kid who isn’t so skilled and makes lots of mistakes
thinking subconsciously that your social media posts about your kids’ achievements are bringing you significance
being all-consumed with your kids’ sporting activities
having warped and unrealistic views that your kid is on track for scholarships to top colleges and maybe even fame and fortune as a professional
viewing success strictly through the lens of stats and the scoreboard
If you have a kid in youth sports and care, there is a good chance that you have been guilty for a few of these above points. I have been wrong in some of these areas too. All of us parents must realize we are part of the problem and adjust our actions accordingly.
Agree or disagree?
I am on a quest to champion character in youth sports. I invite you to join me on the journey as I post regularly here on Substack.
Many thanks!
Sincerely,
Kevin Anselmo (Editor of the Championing Character in Youth Sports Substack)
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